Strangers, Again

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I saw a video today, its about a couple who feel in love with each other. then time came one of them grew apart, unfortunately they came back from where they have started, strangers again. the ironic things in love is when you finally found the person for you everything change. 

In the video the director Philip Wang states that there are stages in a relationship. those stages defy the possibilities of what will happen next, what are the odds, and what will be the outcome of your relationship. taking the next step is not a joke, you must be prepared mentally and most of all emotionally.

Stage 01 (The Meeting) <---- its when we finally found the one person that completes us, for me my one and only penguin. we make it a point that when its the right time to make a move, we show that person what we are capable of. thru thick and thin we find ways to let them know we are always there for them, we make them laugh, we lend them a hand when they feel alone. in my case, i gave him half of me.

Stage 02 (The Chase) <---- this is the stage when we find what makes our partners laugh, what scares them, what makes them cry, or even what makes them giggle. other people think that if u find your other half then that's enough, mind you you'll regret everything if you never gave that person on hell of happy memory. others think material things will do the job, but nope. you'll just end up packing loads of boxes of small knock knacks. a lot of love will do the trick.

Stage 03 (Honeymoon) <---- this is the time when the both of you finally became a couple, planning the future together, hoping for the best. 

Stage 04 (Comfortable) <---- this part is when it'll get messy. its the part when the both of you realized that nothings changing, but soon everything is different. this stage is when you cant stop arguing with each other, complaining of the small mistakes, hurting each other deeply. what i hate most in this stage is when you'll never know that word hurt, then eventually the both of you decided that its time to end things. 

those were the stages stated in the video, for those who are reading this blog try to watch the video. it'll all make sense because after stage 04 that's the time when the both of you will decide if you're ready for the next level. if you can fix what problems you have and find ways to compromise with each other, then that's the time to take the next step. Marriage comes next, marrying the person you love is one of the most rewarding gift a person can have. love has always been guiding us for the life we hold.

have fun watching... =)